You also sound like you are doing things very well.
My thoughts: Right now the focus is on him. Take K's advice and that will begin to change. That's a good thing. Find out what your husband is really asking for. What I mean is, it sounds like he's lonely for you. Like he wasn't getting something he needed from the relationship. Find out what that is (indirectly I would guess). Look good and feel good about yourself. Confidence is attractive.
It is really hard. Be sure to make up your mind about what you want later, because you will be tested about it later. It'll help to fall back on.
Be sure to sleep. That's hard, but you need to do it.
AJ
"Our lives begin to end the day we become silent about things that matter" MLK Put the glass down... "Yesterday I was clever so I wanted to change the world Today I am wise, so I am changing myself."
