I am doing pretty good at not obsessing today. Well a lot better than in the past few weeks so I look at that as improvement. I am able to spend hours without thinking about him. I think right now I am spending more time thinking about how I should react next time, if I am doing the right things and how long will it be until he next contacts me. Rather than what he is doing himself, who he is with or what he has already said,etc.
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If you feel good about this interaction, then I'd say, yeah, go dark again until H contacts you again
Well I dont know if I'd say I feel good about it because I wish there was more, but I guess its better than none. I am worried I may have come across as cold or like I didn't care anymore. I am glad I stuck to my plan and followed through tho. I just hope that having such little contact doesn't make us drift even further apart.
I've got a long 3 day weekend coming up and need to make sure I keep busy so I don't obsess and worry. And the only thing that I really have to do is the only thing I don't want to do/can't concentrate on! (essays for my postgrad classes)
Me-27 H-28 M-2.5 yrs T-8.5 yrs No kids B 1/09 S 2/09
