Lucky you!! I was down on my knees for 6 months, changed anything I could change to please him, begged, cried, blew up etc etc.
First thing you need to do is focus on you. Try to decifer your feelings and keep them in control. Make a list of small goals and try to achieve those. What could your goals be?
When I said attractive I didnt only mean physically. Try and get him curious about your changes. Consistency is the key here. All WAS wonder if our changes are for real. The only way to make them believe us is MAKE them real, for us, and be consistent. It is very good that he noticed already. In some cases it takes months for the WAS to aknowledge that. In my case my H told me he did notice only when he asked back. Were you having problems before the baby?
I know you are in a lot of pain but you know what? You sound good. K
