Luckily, I responded pretty calmly because when he told me,I had already been reading db books. Yes, it keeps me up all night thinking about him chatting it up with some other woman online (I often wonder if it's someone from his past and not a new person), but I never bring her up in our conversations.
And yes, you're right...a baby does take a toll. I love my little girl very much, but I haven't put myself first for anything in a long time, which this "bomb" has made me realize. It's only been 3 weeks, but I've lost some weight and tried to get "dressed up" more often, which makes me feel better about myself. And, I know he see's these changes, but he always says he doesn't know if I can change for good.
It's just so hard to do the LRT while he's coming home for dinner, playing with our daughter afterwards, and then around 9 or 10 at night saying goodnight and going to the basement....it really tries my patience!
Anyway, thanks so much for responding, I think this site is going to help me very much!
