Need some advise

[Doingitright]

I have been following the 7 steps in divorce remedy and need some advise. I have two very significant dates coming up in our relationship, 15 years together and our 13 year marriage anniversary. How should I proceed with these occasions?

Super summarized back ground:
Wife wanted to separate (8 weeks ago)
Does not love me like a husband...no longer attracted to me
Started your 7 steps 2 + weeks ago
Asked not to proceed to a divorce
Agreed but held where we were (no real movement)
Caught her in an emotional/tried to be more than affair
Proceeded towards divorce
She asked to not go down the D route
Has said affair has stopped
Asked to go to counseling together
Attended counseling this week together
Both confirmed we would not D
Reaffirmed commitment to counseling together