And now for the update. Went to IC yesterday and we talked about how long I want this limbo stage to draw out and my counselor said he thinks that I'm going to have to make a decision on my timeline and share it with W. He thinks that she is not going to make a decision and will stay in this limbo stage as long as possible. I have to say that I kinda agree with that and knowing my W as I do I can totally see that happening. But that leaves me with a difficult decision...a timeline. Honestly I'm thinking that by June 1st we should either be starting the process of working on us albeit slowly or that we should be starting to see the mediator to figure out the separation of everything. I will need to think on this one for awhile and any advice will be greatly appreciated on this. Last night was cool. W and I took D3 to the Portland Trailblazers playoff game. We had great seats about 9 rows from the floor. D3 was a little overwhelmed at the beginning of the game by all the people and the noise but by the end she was having a good time. W and I got along great and just spent the night as friends enjoying each others company. She even went out and bought new clothes for the game and asked me on several occasions if I liked them and if she looked good in them...to which I responded Yes, you look awesome. Today it's back to limbo stage and I am super tired from not getting much sleep last night. Tonight will be an early night to recharge the old batteries.