Oh, yah. As I was telling SO2...I recently found out that my H had oral sex with a friend of mine right after he moved out. She is the wife of a very good friend of mine and I feel awful that I know.
SO not the point, but if she was doing that w/your H, then she is NOT your friend. Feel sorry for her H. I wouldn't know what to do in that situation, its a hard position to be in.
Originally Posted By: blindsided1
Also, can someone tell me why he is getting meaner? I don't understand it. I am not mean to him. So, why? Is it because I am the easiest one to direct his anger at?
He is getting meaner because the reality of his situation is kicking in and its not all fun & games anymore. He directs his anger at you because you are safe - (meaning he can always vent his feelings to or on you and you continue to be there) and experience has shown him that he can press your buttons, get you to react and in turn justify his feelings by being mad at you, instead of dealing with his $hit like a grown up.
M:39 H:39 K:S14;D8 T:22yr M:15yrs S:12/28/07 EA/PA 3/14/08 OW preg 11/17/08 born 12/12/08 his ~~~~~~~ Never allow someone to be your priority while allowing yourself to be their option
