We seem to be on cruse control and its hard to change a habit that is so ingrained in our routine.
Really? Maybe she's still not ready. I think there are times when we all think something sounds like a great idea until it comes time to implement. Then we find out if we are really ready.
Going to MC, to me, says that you are both ready for a change. Are you both on the same page or still trying to find that out?
I feel like there's more you'd like to say, but you're not. But I could be wrong (but also understand that you may not want to say it here and are talking offline).
WT
Not sure if she is not ready or it just feels awkward because we have not be intimate outside the bedroom in a long time. I know how it feels for me but I cannot speak for her. I want to be more physical but don't because it feels like I am putting pressure on her.
And I hope your right about going to MC. She still makes off hand remarks but the MC told me to ignore them as long as she comes that is what is important. That is what I try and do.
I think we are on the same page most of the time. I just need to keep giving her space as I have been doing and not try to force any issues.
You are right about having more to say but just not sure how to write it exactly. I kinda need to just either think it through or talk about it more than anything. If you understand what I mean.
Good to hear from you WT and I soooooooo need this weekend to just unwind and forget about work and home. Putting in 11 to 12 hours a day for the past three weeks is starting to wear on me a little. Couple that with my W having problems at her work and it makes for a bad situation if we don't both find a way to relax. Getting away from each other might be the best thing right now.
How you doing? Hope your enjoying the great weather we have been having. I had a great weekend with my son. We went to a RR museum on Saturday and he go a RR merit badge. Then on Sunday we stained the deck together so it was good father son time.
