And following up behind Lucky...I still don't quite get why you need to see the OM at all? You said she admitted to sleeping with 4 guys...it seems you are only focused on one of them and needing some kind of proof of "which one" it is by seeing him at her apartment....? I don't really get it. I think maybe some kind of self-masochistic thing is creeping into your head. It will be so painful for you to see a man enter her apartment. Why put yourself through it? I still don't see the need. She is cheating. She has cheated. She continues to cheat. It could be one or many men. Who cares what his face looks like? Is this really about exposure, or is there something inside of you that just has to see what kind of POS she is screwing in order to hate her enough for you to move forward? Which does make a little bit of sense in a sick way...but never trust your impulses to be unkind to yourself when you are going through a crisis! Your impulse to need to see this guy seems self-masochistic to me. (I don't mean that with any disrepect...we all do things that are not our normal reactions when we are in crisis mode).
