I opted to forego exposure last year with my DH. However, I have made it abundantly clear that if he files, I will have him served with my countersuit through his JAG office at the ship while he is at work and that I will have the OW served at the MEPS office she works at. I will have it done as publicly as possible.
As long as there is a possibility of reconciliation--which God has assured me over and over that there is, I will not interfere with his career with no action taken on his part. if he files, I figure he is willing to risk the exposure.
It was not an easy decision to make and I did make sure that one ombudsman knew the whole situation during the last deployment, in case something happened with me or the kids. She does not know about this latest twist, as i do not know if she would refrain from exposure herself--she and I ahve become really good friends over the last 8 months.
Living God's blessings with grace and dignity~ SMW
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Love never gives up, never loses faith, is always hopeful, and endures through every circumstance. I Corinthians 13:7