The adventure continues- part 4

[AFWAW]

What I'm not quite understanding is this recent stuff. Why do you have to see his face in order to expose them at their work?

She never gave me a name of anyone and wouldn't.

Why do you need to see his face?

37+ possibles at her work--large building

And why do you have to ensure that he is at her apartment in order to expose them?

She claims she ended it--I want to see if that is true.

To me, I'm not sure if exposing is the right plan. It will definitely shake things up and it will probably stop all the affairs and heads will roll...but it may or may not make her ever want to be with you again.

I've been asking myself the same thing but what else can I do? Sit there and suffer? Revenge affair? What's the right thing to do? Difficult to answer I know--I've wasted many hours contemplating.

Then on the other hand, lets say you don't expose. She still may or may not want to ever be with you again.

Good point and quite possibly true as well.

To me, what you really need to do is decide for YOURSELF if YOU want HER back or not. Decide this assuming she is still having affairs. And then you will know what to do.

If she said she wanted to come back today, I would have her. Tomorrow, who knows. If I see a light on and someone answers the door, then I will have a definative answer as I almost 100% sure she will hate me enough to never come back. In fact I know it will be quite ugly for her.

Will it heal anything within YOU?

I thought about this also and NO is the answer but it will give me closure and force me into a decision which is much, much better than where I'm at right now. Good question.