Hi Crazy Jim Thanks a lot for answering. I'm glad you don't want to read it or you might go really crazy!! I am definately going to think about doing this but I am worried he might find it too "soppy" or contrived. He can be sadly unromantic in that way. And it would be a hell of a job for me to read it out to him. Do I have to read it out or can I let him read it. And could I even do that??? Arggh. Well it gives me something to think about. Thanks again.