Originally Posted By: LuckyGirl
I realize I misread your question. YES, gather enough evidence NOT ONLY so you can finger him, but that you can prove an A. Phone records? Internet?

I wasn't a fan of the outing earlier. In general, I think that the cheater got to that point for a reason, and that you should live and let live and not destroy someone (petty) if it's too far gone. But I've reached a different opinion based on how she has behaved recently and based on how she speaks about you with your D.

It is only because of your D that I'm feeling like it's time to out this. So that you are in a good position.

Lucky


No way to get phone records, tried this already, new password would go directly to wife's cell phone. She has her own internet service as well. All I have right now is her admission to me and emails stating that she's been promiscious. No names, numbers, details. She did tell me that there were 2 other guys at her work(civilians) and this LtCol who she is in love with. Like I said, I won't to bring this MFer down more than her. I'm praying for strength to follow through if and when I find out the horrible truth.


M-41
ex-W-40
Together--17 years
SS-20
D-14
Bomb--2 Feb 09
WAW--6 Feb 09
Officially divorced on 2 Jun 2010!!!
ex-W has a boyfriend 8 Jun 2010!!!
Off we go into the wild blue yonder!!!!