M 19 years, MC for 8 months, DB'd for 8 months 4 kids; 18, 15, 14, & 10 I was never meant to be a doormat. It took me years of therapy to become assertive enough to stop his abuse.
The sun's always over the yard arm somewhere in the empire. ;0)
Kalni, keep the faith. You sound like you are mustering the courage to kick him out. Why the difficulty?
AJ
"Our lives begin to end the day we become silent about things that matter" MLK Put the glass down... "Yesterday I was clever so I wanted to change the world Today I am wise, so I am changing myself."
K, See my advice to Lan. I'd like to give you the same advice now. As for all WAS - I will not associate with them regardless of their BS excuses for walking away. And you made me laugh with your 69 joke - Go Beavers!