Just remember with what seems are negatives there are positives as well. The house may lift some guilt from your H. Money in hand, may cause more conflict in his current R. ow bashing you on FB, your H may be or start defending you. You are still a source of security for your H, as long as you are M - his R can only go so far. (As Jody has said). So keep the positives
Me39, XH45 Kids 3 dogs, 2 cats Divorced 6/4/09 Tricky thing is not how you live, but how you live with yourself. (POTC)