Ok, this is going to be tricky. I had an early lunch and just went and looked at where she lives. I think I will ask her if she is going to take my D back to her apartment the night she comes back or if she is going to drop her at home. If the latter, then I will drive over Sat night since that is the night they get back as you would think not see each other for a few days would make them want to get together. If there are lights on after dark in the apartment, then I will know and have to make one of the hardest decisions of my life. I don't know if I should ask her again or not--don't think it will do much good. Based on the strategic location of her apartment--facing the woods, 2nd floor, there is no way to get a look into it and since I don't know what this guy looks like it looks like it will be a difficult task. So probably, the only way to tell will be if the lights are on. Thoughts on this?


M-41
ex-W-40
Together--17 years
SS-20
D-14
Bomb--2 Feb 09
WAW--6 Feb 09
Officially divorced on 2 Jun 2010!!!
ex-W has a boyfriend 8 Jun 2010!!!
Off we go into the wild blue yonder!!!!