I suppose I have simply postponed the inevitable discussion for now. I emailed him that I didn't want to make any changes right now, that I had alot to deal with without trying to sort this out at the moment. He replied, "perhaps we can sit down and discuss 1st of June?" I said perhaps.
Also did something out of character for me. Heard something on the radio and straight away was getting mad at flirt guy for not being at the same place as I. I was ready to just shut it all down. I stopped myself and said wait a minute, you just had a decent chat about all of this and you are creating drama where there needn't be any. Quit making assumptions and jumping to conclusions. You, yourself are the problem here.
I don't think I could have done that even a few months ago. I see that as progress. I am growing.
kat
Me-53(and learning!) S24, S21, D18, D17 Just keep swimming, Just keep swimming. Dory