Holding onto Hope

[In Limbo]

I have a DB question. The guidance is for the LBS not to be too available (not answer phone right away). But what if one of the main complaints of the sep spouse is that they felt the LBS was not available enough to them (didn't always answer phone right away)? Do you still do that or do you answer immediately as a 180? In my case, I used to be bad about not always keeping my cell with me, sometimes forgot and left it on silent, etc. and it made my H so mad when he couldn't get me. So now I don't know if I should change that behavior or follow the DB guidance. Any thoughts?