Whatdidido, last week H did in fact mention that we could be picking up his son together. So I think if or when we get to coming up with a plan that could very well be on the table. I'm just still concerned about illnesses, etc. How to deal with the contact and H getting updated. I was thinking that OW could set up a bank account too that H could deposit money into for son. I think that would be a great tracking system as well. So will see if we get to seriously making plans.