A few weeks ago my W and I got into a huge fight. It started when I said something to my SS22 about eating in his room. She came home from our neighbor's house and went crazy yelling screaming pumching the wall hurting herself so much that I had to hold her arms down. After she calmed down for awhile she told me what she didn't like about me. My only response is your right I'm not perfect. Then she started hitting me, I told her that I've always knew what she didn't like about me but it was something I've been working on.
It's been quiet since then and I just keep doing my own thing. My W will still stay out at all hours of the night. She justifies her actions by saying she sticks to the promises she makes. Today I told her that her behavior is childish and selfish. That she holds grudges and needs to grow up. Then I left the room. I didn't have an angry tone or talk down to her.
Before she left the house she came to me and gave me a hug. Then a tiny kiss. When she kisses me her lips are so stiff, but it's a start.
