Hey Kev,

Just so you know how women think, they will be around, constantly. Just to 'be there', pretending nothing is going on, Just waiting around for an opportunity for you to 'cry on her shoulders'. All women do this. It's part of our nurturing side. But it's not necessary innocent because we know exactly what we are doing.

We might not give any indication that it is anything but platonic but there is an ulterior motive. We don't really need guy friends. Girlfriends are really fantastic, we can talk heart-to-heart, we can go have fun. We want guys around as backups for our primary male relationship.

So now you know our secret, proceed with care.


Me:39
H:40
S:9
D:7
First Bomb ONS:June 07
Second Bomb OW: March 08
Separated: March 08
M:15 yrs
T:18 yrs
H deep into A with OW
Achieved ACCEPTANCE May 30, 09

'Yes, I can.'