So... Father-in-law just called to tell me "he is sorry whats going on and that he loves me"... Total crap i think. Like i said in previous post BIL and wife are pretty sure he is the cataylst in this situation. I too believe that he is. We all know how he is and what he would do.
Anyways so I talk to him and ask him what he thinks of the situation. He says that he thinks she is serious and that he told me she was stubborn when we first got together. then he goes onto say you know maybe she will see it in time just give her space. I tell him that i am and im going to changes things that i feel need to be changed because regardless they make me a better person. That im going move on if thats what it comes to but that i feel bad for my D because she has no choice she cant just move on she has to live with this life we are giving her. He then proceeds to tell me not to give up to make changes and maybe she will see it and that maybe she will come around. (was talking to him in a positive tone)
So i even though i think he is that cataylst behind this at least maybe it will put some doubt in his head about what she is doing since he has a huge contribution to her decision making.
Another good note though got another goodmorning text from W so at least she hasnt stopped talking to me and i think ive made it clear that I dont "need" to talk to her. Not sure if she is talking to me because she feels like im hurt and that i "need" to hear from her.
