A new thread, a new outlook.....

[PositivelyMommy]

Kev,
Admit it, you were tempted. My question to you is, are you going to let her get closer to you or are you going to draw a line to her texts? Be honest with yourself. You don't have to answer to us. Just ask yourself how far you will let this go on before you stop? My H never drew a line, he let the OW pursue him and then said,'Oh, but I never went looking for it.' My answer is, 'Well, you didn't stop it either.'

Here is a woman who is OW material. She is approaching a man who is having marital problems, positioning herself to be the answer to his woes. Sound familiar, LBS out there? What type of person intentionally gets tangled up in other people's marital problems??? Answer is, someone who is very insecure. I feel sorry for my H's OW in a way. She doesn't feel she deserves a man of her own. How sad. She needs to take something from someone else to feel powerful, to feel worthy, to feel happy. She cannot be happy by herself. She needed to do this to feel fulfilled.

I am sure you are a nice guy, a charming soul. Ask yourself, why did this lady choose you? Out of all the people in town, why you? Why someone who is unavailable?