How do I explain to DH that out lives are too busy for him now?
quit worring about this.... you don't owe him anything.
a person who leaves their spouse just didn't have the skills needed... a person who leaves their kids has issues
sorry but you don't deserve the heart ache here
Kenn--
One of the biggest things i have had trouble dealing with is DH's treatment of the kids. It is unconscionable and so out of character for him. i guess, since he really does not want to have a family, it is not really necessary for me to make his readily available to him. Wonder how it will feel to think you have all this time to spend with your kids, yet you do not get to spend it with them. that was his justification to D9 for going to MI now. He will see the kids all the time but did not know when he would see his friends again.
None of us deserve this heartache, but it is what God is giving us to deal with right now. I am just tryingto handle it in the best way I can, weighing my decisions against what the Lord expects me to do.
Living God's blessings with grace and dignity~ SMW
M40/H36 T16/M14 4K B2/08 S4/08 current
Love never gives up, never loses faith, is always hopeful, and endures through every circumstance. I Corinthians 13:7
