it is too bad what is going on lately. It looks like three of the most patient posters that I follow are headed toward closure...You, Lan and to a lesser extent BBJ. You guys have been at it for so long. i was hoping that there would be a nice ending somewhere...it takes two to tango and your efforts were not mirrored by your respective spouses.
When you say I am getting really close now, what do you mean? Are you waiting for your H to pull the plug? Not that it matters either way. When I read some posts it just takes me back to my own sitch and sometimes I shake my head in amazement at how much crap I took and the physical and psychological toll it took on me.
