Originally Posted By: oldtimer
"But as usual any attempt to re connect intimately is rejected."

What constitutes an "attempt"?

Glad your tests came back ok, sorry about your job \:\(


Hey OT,

Long time since you got on my case.(LOL).. Well after I had written that I do see a little improvement coming along. David C. says that "women love Drama" maybe my job loss has given her some. Maybe my job loss has helped her esteem putting us on equal grounds.
Last night she made a nice dinner and after when she was washing dishes I brought her my plate and put my hands on her waist and thanked her for dinner and said it was great. And she did NOT tense up as "usual" when I touch her.
I have kind of been doing my own thing these last few days. NOT pursuing Wife and it does seem that she is going out of her way to stay in contact. Maybe I was the Wimpy Clingy Husband...don't know anyway...
My son has 6th grade "summer camp in two weeks. (He will be gone for a week) let's see what happens. This will be the first week wife and I have been alone for a long time. The Friday of that week I am going to TELL wife I am taking her out for dinner. Could be interesting...

Dr LOve


And if I claim to be a wise man, well
It surely means that I don't know