Just catching up on you... I was really hoping things would be different after he came back, but this is exceeding the worst expectations!
I think we all had higher hopes for homecoming than DH was capable of realizing. I just hope his trip to MI was sufficently miserable.
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As you're trying to deal with this, don't try to rationalize the irrational... You can see from the posts above that it's not just you that can't figure it out. He's being completely irrational. Don't spend too much time trying...
No, that would definitely be a cheeseless tunnel!!
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Keep doing what you were doing while he was gone. He needs to see the consistency of your changes and the life you've built for you and the kids while he was gone.
Strength!
I got that consistency down. I had a rough day last Tuesday with the kids, yet I still got the laundry done, cooked a hot meal for them, and got work done on one of my school papers. I cannot let myself get derailed into a panic mode. God is in control and I cannot sidetrack Him from dealing with DH just because I forgot where my hope comes from.
Living God's blessings with grace and dignity~ SMW
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Love never gives up, never loses faith, is always hopeful, and endures through every circumstance. I Corinthians 13:7
