It's nice to hear from you again. Kev, I look for scraps to give me a lift, I also try to second guess her. I just do not seem to be able to shake off what my wife thinks /does which is so damned stupid on my part. I have been told so many times to forget what she is up to and concentrate on the children and me.
One thing I can do successfully is non-contact with her, she initiates ALL contact with me, though I took this too far by not phoning my children for two nights which to her obviously was 'more of the same'. I am having trouble detaching which I need to get to grips with.
I am going to take JCJ's advice and concentrate on three 180's to make it managable and give me some focus.
Bomb dropped: 19/12/08 Me:48 WAW:41 D:10 S:6 Married: 15 years
