Virgnia, Thank you. I needed your clarity. I've been a basket case since last night. I sent H an very sincere apology for doing/saying things within our marriage that cause him to feel insignificant and powerless. It was purely an apology. I wanted him to know that I truly heard his feelngs last night and accepted my part in causing them.
I understand that I did a major backslide by talking about the R last night. I will try harder to be more vigilant. I guess old habits are hard to break.
M44 H46 T21 Married 16y D14 D12 Bomb 12/08(EA), (PA/Separation)1/09 to 5/09 Home/MC 5/09 to 12/09 Leaves 12/09 Files for Divorce Divorce final 6/30/10.