WAW1

[markhaving probs]

Hi J,

I hope you are well, I am in Reigate, Surrey and it is beautiful here too. Thank you for your response, it is such a boost for me when I see posts that can give me a lift.

I would like to ask your opinion on something if you don't mind. I did something for my wife that I did not need to do but it would have affected the children if she had to wait for someone else to do it. This is a boundary I have set in that I will do things for her if it involves the children.

When I texted her to say I had done the task which she did not know I was going to do, she responded with the nicest text she has sent for awhile. It said "Thank you so much Mark, I really am very grateful". For the rest of the day I received 3 more texts pertaining to the children including one that ended with her saying "ok its a win win situation, it only takes a bit of communication". This was in regard to arrangements for the children on Sunday. All the texts were 'friendly' worded if I include the last one, (or was she being sarcastic)?

Cut to today where I have had 5 texts (the first one was 0656 am)regarding different things and one of them was in regard to a message I forgot to give to her weeks ago. I apologised and said next time I will make a note, though instead of just saying 'ok' she said " don't worry, there probably won't be a next time". She seems to have reverted to WAW mode, though could me saying the next time I'ii make a note could have been construed as pursuing?

Lastly, since yesterday she has texted me 9 times mainly about the children, one if I had made arrangements to see a mate, and the other one was the one above. Does it seem strange she is texting so much?

Thank you in advance.