thank you so much guys
ive kept the gym thing going beacuse i love it, my wife has just loined up with me so this is an interest we will do together so thats a positive,
im still working on me and my wife on her, but were both working together also, things are fantasitic between us, sure there will be disagrements along the way, thats natural but i know it will be different this time, it will be compromise all the way, no more me me me it will be us,
we have booked a holiday overseas, were due to leave in 5 weeks just the 2 of us, were so looking forward to it, we will be taking the kids in the summer,
we involve each other now in most things and treat each other as individuals as well as couple, we listen to each other and share laughs,
were rebuilding and we are doing it together as equals