Rough and Ugly Four Months going on LIfe

[pearlharbr]

Well, the earliest I would leave town at this point would be July but xBF is stepping up these days so the move is on hold for now. It will depend on how I feel about him after we really get into things.

Ah, not a cat person. That's cool, I wasn't an animal person at all until I got mine. Just means you can't hang at my house since the black furries have the run of the place. No pool at my sports bar but decent food (a little on the spendy side) and lots of tvs. Actually I will have to look for a new one since I don't want to bring xBF there with me and I refuse to go to his sports bar because he took OW there. Will let you know what I turn up.

Hey, let me know if you come out here anytime before the move. I can give you a little scoop on the area.

I am not doing anything for her that I wouldn't do for my neighbor

Really? You'd do all that for a neighbor? I'm guessing you'd do one or two things for said neighbor but not everything that W asks for help with.

Think about it this way: you are really hindering her ability to grow as a person if you are always there to do whatever she needs. I'm sure you want to raise your D to be an independent woman who can take care of herself. Don't you want the same thing for your W? It's good for W and it's good for D to have a strong role model. Since W isn't being a good role model in other areas (ahem) it would be good for D to see her handling her own responsibilities. Make sense?