Finished my work day and picked up D3 from day care spent some time Building her playground, and then made us dinner.
BIL and his wife called me today. They are just as shocked as me. They say W is being typical W they werent happy with her at all about the situation. (which made me feel good). They have always been supportive of our M and they both think very highly of the both of us. but they also know that i have stuck threw with my wife through all of her problems (she has had some serious personal problems not concerning me) and they dont think this is fair to me at all. Just nice to know that her own family is pulling for the ultimate goal.
Got some bad news from them too... They believe that W's father is a big cataylst in this situation. He has always been negitave toward our M and everything we have done espically when we made bigger life decisions (i.e. buying our house, career changes, etc.) He has to be in control of everyones life and unfortunatly W cant tell him that its her life not his...
other than that W did contact me more today but found out they are extending thier training for her new job possibly till Jun. Wasnt hoping they would do that (know this to be true btw have some old supervisors that are there doing the same training that are friends of mine)
Got a couple text from her conversation went as follows:
W: "Might b here till june again. Did u figure out when ur gonna go to florida?" (told her i might head to florida to see some family for a couple of days)
Me: "No i havent yet"
W: "Ok i was just wandering"
W: "How r u and D3"
Me: "We are good"
W: "Will u call me before D goes to sleep somtime to see if she wants to talk please"
Me: "ok"
W: "I'm going to cali this friday for nieces b day, I need to get her that game boy, just so u know"
Me: "ok"
Called her after gave D3 a bath, no answer. So i called about an hour later before D3 bedtime no answer. She then calls back...
I answered, she says "you call?" I say ya you said you wanted to talk to D. D got on the phone said hi mommie, then she is done and shys away from the phone... i get on tell her apperently she is done talking, she says ok, I tell W ok well i talk to you later, she hesitated like she expected me to want to talk to her, she says ok and i tell her bye she returns bye. So whole conversation lasted all of 2 mins...
End of conversations... Hope I handled those better than conversations before.
Anyways felt good to hear her voice... she didnt sound as upset as she has been when we have talked on the phone i expect that she was caught by surprise by my positive attitude.
Should i have stayed on the phone just a little longer to give her the oppurtunity to make small talk? or did i do the right thing by not letting a conversation really start?
