Irmac how long have you been going through this? Listen I may not know much about DBing or anything else they say in here but I can tell you that GOD loves you and he IS listening and there is a reason for this. You and I will become stronger people. I know we will. Just keep praying and GOD will move. We have to be obediant to him and trust that his way is the only way. I know you love your h as much as I love my xh. I dont know what happend to my xh but I know that I will be ok because I have GOD. The other night during revival at church I prayed for healing for my family and my heart. I havent cried a tear over my xh since. GOD is moving in my life and has something great for me as he does you. Just sit still and wait for him. Just like you said depend on GOD for his grace and mercy. Irmac my xh doesnt ask about me either that I know of. He has other things in his life right now that is getting his attention. I dont know where your h is or what he is doing, but continue to pray for his salvation and turn him over to GOD as I have my xh and things will be ok. I will be praying for you and your family,