I can certainly understand why that would be stressful.
You can only try to do your best.
It is a hurdle, Cagz.
You can do it.
Me: 46 H:44 Together: 25 years Married: 20 years Separated: 11-30-06 Divorced 12-21-07 OW: EA began 2005 PA began end of 2006 3 children,20, 16, 6 ex asked for forgiveness 01/16/11