"she really used to ask for quality time from me and needs it from her friends".
This is her love language. Think about the things that she has begged the most from you.
Believe it or not I am a physical touch person and have begged my husband for years for sex and touch. He is a quality time person. He has begged me for years to show interest in him and to do things with him. Didn't get it! We spent so much time together, but it wasn't quality time. *sigh*
"It is excruciating pain. It is the pain of separation, the pain of loss, the pain of dreams and expectations unrealized. It is the loss and death of a mirage."