I'm having a big ole tag sale this weekend, Friday and Saturday. Do you want to come by ahead of time to get the ratty cage (with assorted paraphernalia thrown in)?
Icky feelings are normal. It's a question of reaction or actions. If I'm reacting to him, I feel horrible. If I am taking action, I feel better.
Everyone only has control of three feet around them. The rest is out of their hands. Keep your feet in the present. You're worth it.
*hugs*
PS.. It doesn't matter if he hangs around to talk to your daughter. Most likely she'll be flitting about. And I do arrive early to performances with book in hand, get a great seat up front and read and relax. Why should I give ex prime real estate in my mind?
