Re-read DB and DR. They'll help you stay focused.

That's why there's that section about "well meaning" friends and ineffective C. The C I was seeing was surprised my W actually came back because she was so hell-bent on leaving and never coming back.

M-43 W-40
2D - 9 and 5

Emotion, yet peace.
Ignorance, yet knowledge.
Passion, yet serenity.
Chaos, yet harmony.
Death, yet a new life.

RECONCILED AND WISER