Well I called the wife to try and see our son, or make arrangemnets to see him for tommorrow. The W answered denied me seeing him at all, I tried to explain to her that she can't leaglly keep me from being able to see her and she hung up. 15 minutes later, she called back and said that she is meeting with a lawyer on Thursday, and that her lawyer will contact mine, and I may be able to see him Thursday evening This time she stayed on the phone a little longer telling me that because i blindsided her yesterday by having a lawyer present that that is the final straw. She said any trust that she had regained in me is now gone, and that any chance at this even being friendly is over. That she will have her lawyer serve me with divorce papers now also. I asked her to just keep it to custody for now and lets see what happens from there. With how angry and upset she is at me, all I can do is wait and see, I'll have to disappear, back to the last resort technique - now read that chapter 4 times, from her for a while hoping she gets over it. I was even at the point that something old from four relationship grabbed her attention. So now I know that I fell way back, beyond square one, and will have a lot more of her anger and bitterness to deal with. I still have hope in my heart that this marriage can be saved - hopefully there is a small glimmer in hers also. Anyone with any advise or suggestions, I could defiantly use them at this point.
Me 35 W 30 S 3 M 7 : T 13 yrs Separated 2/20/09 My Story
