Beg, I loved your last post and I totally agree with you. I did send a text first. BUT where I messed up is not letting it be at that. I am trying to take the easy road I guess by expecting him to do his part. I guess I need to get things done myself. It is just such a effort to go through this the hard way when it could be so much easier if he would cooperate. I wish so much he would just go on be happy all while being at least civil with me. Honestly does it threaten his relationship with her so much that he cant communicaate with his childs mother? I was nice to her when she answered his phoen and asked nicely to speak with him. She instead said NO YOU MAY NOT and hung up on me. She's just as bad.