Its like I cant let go cold turkey. I didnt call for a month and then I did. I might go 3 months next time for I have the need. Does this not help SOME? Or does it have to be NO contact EVER for how ever it TAKES? What I am trying to say is, does it mess things up if I have to call about something important, reallly important, every now and then. I dont mean just any little thing either.