Beg, I was doing soooo good. No contact what so ever. No text or nothing for about a month or more. Then I got the letter about our taxes and sent him a text, then called him because I got no response. I thought well its been a month he may be decent enough to discuss this with. If I had an idea he was still just as angry, I WOULD NOT have called. BUT I can not pay this by myself. I have no L to go through to contact him and I wanted to know what he planned to do about it. That should have been a simple conversation. What more could I have done. Please give me suggestions, because other than texing or calling him about it I dont know what else I could have done. If I sent him a letter he wouldnt even have opened it. He probably would have thrown it away. So what am I to do. I understand I probably should have let son aske him about shoes but son WILL NOT ask him for nothing in fear of making his dad mad. I am back to no contact again. I wish this would get better already. I think he has it in his head that I still am trying to hang on and this contact is a way to do that. I dont think he sees me as going on with my life. That is why I have asked the question "how are they going to know when we have moved on", because until he knows, I dont think he is going to talk to me.
