hhmmm that's an easy one. You say here take the kids on so and so night and bring them back at so and so time. You don't need to explain. Just state the facts in a business like fashion then smile and wave... leave him wondering. Make sure you get out without those kids and he doens't need to know what you are doing (even if you go spend 2 hours in a book store followed by 1 hour at the library) I even only told my kids that I was going out with friends. Sometimes I was and sometimes I wasn't. At least once a week do this and make it a weekend night for good measure.

Give that man something to wonder about will ya?


M:47
M:18
D16, S19
1st S 1/08-5/08
Reconciled/May 7, 2008
Left again Nov 9, 2009
I Filed: Nov 17, 2009
Final: April 14, 2010
EX walked away from kids too