Originally Posted By: pearlharbr
Hey, don't forget you already have a friend in CO - me! But we will have to do grown up things because I don't hang with kids.


I haven't \:\) I am totally looking forward to the sports bars. Daughter does love to shoot pool but I need some adult time with friends too. I'm sure she won't be too offended. I'm not a big cat person LOL!

your scaring me... I keep thinking you're going to move out of town before I get there \:\)

Originally Posted By: pearlharbr

But I strongly recommend letting your W deal with her own problems. It's not being mean, it is allowing her to deal with the consequences of her actions. She chooses to be single then she chooses all aspects of single life.


and you are right there. It's funny... if I help I think what an a$$ but when the problem first present's itself I just jump up to help fix. Part of me want's to say it's because we are not out there yet and I am afraid to come off as an ass but the truth is that I just haven't cut the rope. I am not doing anything for her that I wouldn't do for my neighbor......BUTTTTT.... my neighbor didn't leave me for another guy either LOL!

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