you obsess and hang onto things he said several months ago, that he probably only said at the time to get you off his back, ie....wanting to talk to you every 2 weeks. He probably doesnt even remember it. but you bring it up almost every other post here. Get over it , he is not going to honor any word or statement he has given you...look at the divorce. that should give you a big clue as to how good his word is.
he is now on a fast track to hell, why do you want to be a part of that??? Let the tyrant go ...let the messed up 26 yr old gf have him. shes got serious baggage shes carrying from loosing her child. Shes avoiding her issues and that man is avoiding his....BUT they have NOTHING to do with YOU. You dont want to be anywhere near that train when it derails. Count your lucky stars he doesnt want you around.
stop calling, txting emailing, no smoke signals either or tin cans and string. he cant miss you you wont get out of his life. several weeks is nada zip nothing
you need to worry about you and that nephew you have custody of. your 18 yr old son can look out for himself. if he wants money from dad let him ask.
you seem to be a glutton for punishment. Why set yourself up for them to treat you that way? everyone has said a million times start your own life,,,,you seem to be in a very unhealthy way unable to.
read your posts as a stranger...what would you say to that poor woman?
Me 53 H 51 OW 25 Bomb may 06 left june 8/ 06 ILYBNILWY (twice!) 7/6/07 H wants to come home 7/21/07 H comes home 7/07 -7/08 long haul letting go of OW now piecing in earnest
