Keep backpedaling with DR

[2inlimbo]

Fallgirl, So glad you got some appreciation for your dinner last night.

I agree, I do NOT want my H to think I am pursuing him, it would boost his ego too much. On the other hand ,if I am a complete bitch, that would not serve me well in terms of repairing our M. That's why I try to do the Love Dare as well, within reason. One day of the LD proposes you write a letter to H saying how much you love him, etc. In my mind, that is not reasonable at this time, so I skipped that.

Being unpredictable is good- they don't know what to expect. Just make sure to be kind and if you can't be kind just be silent and go dark.

I get what you're saying re: friends and sibs. I've confided a lot to my Mom and she's gone and F***d everything up with her big mouth. You gotta be careful who you confide in.

Enjoy the cycling,I'm getting into running. Wishing you well...