Coach said something along the lines of 'you can't control your wife's thoughts, feelings, or actions...so don't even try! You CAN control YOUR OWN thoughts, feelings and actions'! I know it's easier said than done, like most of this stuff is. It doesn't change the fact though that it's good advice and makes sense! Hope it helps some.
"Always go straight forward, and if you meet the devil, cut him in two and go between the pieces." - William Sturgis, clipper ship captain, 1830's.
