Can anyone answer this? Part 6

[Virtually_Handsome]

(((((Renee)))))
YOU don't want to put your son in the middle. And that's fair. But YOU can't stop him from trying to put your son in the middle. If your son doesn't want to be in the middle, he is old enough now to say "no". Remember, YOU cannot control what you XH does.

Why can't you get along? I don't know. Right now, he doesn't want to. And you can't control that either. You can drive yourself (and him) crazy trying, or you can live your life. I think that you will find that if you live your life, and find yourself, and have confidence in yourself, and really stop worrying about what he is doing, and why, that he will probably, eventually, allow more contact. That seems to be how it works in a lot of cases. But the more you push, the more he will push away.

As far as whether you, or anyone else believes him, does it make a bit of difference? He says he can't firgive you, and for now, that's how he is acting. Does it matter why? LET GO!