Jack when I called him about our taxes he did answer finally and said he was gonna respond to me through our son. I dont think this is fair to our son, I dont want to put him in the middle. I was told here before to contact him only for finances and in emergency. Well I did contact him about taxes and he didnt want to talk to me in an adult manner. He wanted to go through our son. I say its some her, because he said before she came along that he wanted to communicate with me every two weeks or so to check on things and if I needed him in emergencies. He now how changed his mind. Dont you think this is because of her? Jack people communicate with their divorced spouse's. My best friend is married to a man who has an x-wife and if his x-wife called about their son (and she has), she lets her husband talk to her. Why in the world cant we get along. THAT is all I am asking. I am NOT asking for him to come home. Why cant we get along? Why cant he speak to me once a month if I have to ask him a question about something from our past? Jack his excuse is HE cant forgive ME for the way I have acted. Do you believe him? I dont know if I do.