Well i guess we arent dating anymore, her exact words were "I dont know how it would work, my dad hates you for some reason" I replied "Your dad loves you and just doesnt want to see you hurt, Its not a decision that affects him like it does You, the children and I" She was silent on that one then got off the phone with me, Maybe is all she ever tells me, Maybe this, maybe that, Im so tired of maybe. Im starting to think that i may be the fall back if things dont turn out the way she wants them to, i dont know how well i like that. She has to be crazy to think that we arent great together, We are so close, and get along so well now (other then when i start chasing) We have the right stuff and I know it.
Honestly i dealt with her infidelity, in very short order. It was something that i expected, the only shock was Knowing and not just thinking that it was the case.
She really needs to grow up and think for herself, if the decision rests on her dads shoulders then im out, no if ands or buts.
The last thing i did say was that If we wanted it bad enough that we would find a way.
what i wanted to say was if your dad cared he would want you to be happy. His main complaint with me is that im from the north and he is from the south, thats no joke.
Being deeply loved by someone gives you strength, while loving someone deeply gives you courage.
